remember to pamper yourself is very important!

sometimes as parents we forget that everything can’t just be bills kids home we have to paper our self also men we have to maintain the alive health meaning keeping up with ourself I have been slacking lately but because I go through the only pain do to lupus and other health conditions that prevent me from some activities during the day so I make sure that when I am wired and able to move around I do my nails I might even dress different and put music help the hubby with chores and other things sometimes he says relax but when I have the energy I like to do more then I normally do men to you guys we love you but we love when a men keeps up with himself also their has to be a day for you to get a hair cut do a manicure a new cologne a gift for your wife a gift for your husband a bubble bath I believe both parties deserve to pamper their self also we need to take a day for us as a couple we can’t dine out but how about putting candles and fireplace on movie or saddle music flowers and some nice dinner made by both of us I mean is not a one way street is both and if you are in a relationship that means the I becomes a one becomes we become one nomore I or me is us and we need to embrace it and show how much we apreciaate each other and let our significant other know how amazing they are and while eating dinner of while you are in bed express your feelings and or let each other know how much we love each other and as a couple me and my hubby have a rule that no matter what happened or disagreement we have during the day stays out of the room unless we have to discuss anything but their is no going to sleep mad at each other we must learn to work with each other we are not gonna agree with everything but we can meet in the middle also we don’t argue at all but if we did we wouldnt do it infront of the kids I am in a happy place and this is great loving myself first taking care of myself and doing things for me and I have a wonderful men by side couldn’t ask for anyone better I hope this help you guys in a few ways that suits me

god bless everyone

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